Alfred Adler coined the term “lifestyle” to mean how a person views himself or herself and how that person views the world. According to Adler, by the time you are six, your lifestyle has been set. For many people, including myself, this means feelings of inadequacy. Just think about it. At six, you’re not very good at anything. For me, with 3 older brothers, I lost at just about every game.
So you carry this “baggage” into your adult life and into your relations. So what’s a person to do? Well, then there’s God. If you take that step of faith and give your life to Christ, the rules change. Rather than assessing yourself based on what you’re able to accomplish or what others think of you, you suddenly know your value.
He loves you. Rom 8:38-39 Nothing shall separate us from the love of God which is Christ Jesus
You are valued. Matt 6:26 Look at the birds of the air…Are you not much more valuable than they?
(Bible verses courtesy of Gary Sinclair).
So what’s your lifestyle? Are you still a people-pleaser? Are you still a perfectionist?
Today’s a perfect day to change. Give yourself completely to Christ and experience the freedom he’s promised.
Sunday, November 21, 2010
Adler's lifestyle.....Your lifestyle
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